I have had more than a few friends asking me if my relationship with Mr High Elf is "confirmed" and this got me thinking.
Just exactly what does a "confirmed" relationship mean? Especially with regard to the modern gay community. Does this mean I change my status in my Facebook profile to "in a relationship" and I linked his name too? Or do I hand out a press release stating officially that I am now a + 1?
I'm a little confused and amused by all these "confirmation". Or perhaps they are alluding to my usual practise of ramrodding the question of "So are we are couple?" to the other half?
If they are indeed referring to the latter, then I am sorry to inform that unlike my previous relationships, for some reason, this time round I elected not to ask anything. As I said so before, I didn't want to go my usual psycho on him, and the most I had asked him was if he was monogamous or into that concept. He said he is by nature, and I replied that I am mostly by nature, which of course got a raise from him. "What is that supposed to mean??" LOL!
That's all that matters for now. I have no desire to affix a label on us.